Five bad habits of baby
During the growth of a baby, due to improper parenting of parents, some bad habits often develop: 1. Picking up dirty food and eating Almost all babies used to pick up food and eating, but not all children have formed.Bad habits.
When the baby is still young, parents can instill in him the correct concept of dropping things on the ground and getting dirty.
It is inevitable that food will fall to the ground in daily life. At this time, parents should say to the child, “Oh, things are dirty, we need to wash them.
“And immediately wash it; or tell the child that the food is dirty and can’t be taken anymore, and immediately clean the dirt on the floor into the trash can.”
And don’t pick it up and put it directly into your mouth because you are afraid of wasting it.
Statistics show that most of the parents who pick up dirty food and eat bad food have parents who have lost those foods on the floor and feel that it is a pity to throw them away.
Remember: When you tell your baby “It’s too dirty to fall on the floor, mother eats it and gives you a new one.
When the baby could n’t understand so much at all, all he understood was that since the mother can pick up and eat, then I can also . Besides, because the baby’s ability to distinguish objects from right and wrong is relatively poor, he looked at himCome, things fall on the bed, the table is the same as the floor.
Therefore, parents and mothers must follow the above principles when they fall into bed, and do not think that they are picked up and eaten, as this will mislead your baby.
Of course, this is not meant to be at home, but even more appropriate outdoors.
Correction method Therefore, parents should pay attention to: ⑴ bacteria multiply quickly in vertical places, so avoid babies picking up and eating in such places.
Outdoors, do not pick up anything when it falls to the ground, because there may have been feces of animals such as cats and dogs.
⑶ If there are small things on the table, be sure to take them away immediately, so as not to cause serious consequences if the baby mistakenly eats food.
⑷ When a child picks up food on the ground, parents must not scold the child, nor do they destroy the contents of his hands with his hands, this will scare the young child.
2, children who throw things generally reach 6?
After 8 months, I started to throw things.
When the child unintentionally throws things up, he will be very excited and will think that he has another skill, so he will be very happy to repeat it many times. At the same time, he hopes to attract the attention of his parents and give him praise.
While repeating, the baby is actually learning.
For example: he will observe the falling orbits and ways of objects, and pay attention to the sound of different objects when they fall to the ground; he will gradually realize that there is an inevitable relationship between placing things and making sounds, and thus learn logical knowledge; from throwing things toWait for the sound, learn to expect psychologically, and so on.
Therefore, throwing things is a necessary stage of growth for the baby, which is of great benefit to the baby’s intellectual and psychological growth.
However, different attitudes of parents on this matter will lead the child to develop in different directions.
The correct attitude should be to provide the child with appropriate toys (such as string ball, leather ball, etc.) when the baby starts to master this skill, and create a safe and spacious environment for the baby to throw enough.
When the baby starts to throw things, parents can give a lot of praise, which can enhance the baby’s self-confidence and happy mood, so that he can play happily and accept knowledge easily.
But when he grows up slowly, he should pay attention to gradually diminishing his throwing behavior, so as not to develop bad habits.
The correction method needs to be noted that because the baby is young, the comprehensive coordination of hands and brain is not perfect, so when throwing things, you may accidentally damage the item (such as a falling ball that has knocked the vase on the table).Parents must not yell or criticize their children too much, because the parents ‘reaction will make the child feel special and exaggerated, which will intensify his awareness of throwing things to attract parents’ attention.If you want to attract the attention of others or want to express yourself, you will think of doing it by throwing things, which will eventually make him a bad habit of throwing things.
If the child has developed a bad habit of throwing things, then the mother can take the following measures: ⑴ Design a variety of throwing games, let him throw enough, and turn the bad habit into a skill.
You can teach him various throwing skills, such as pitching and sandbags.
After two years of age, the baby has a certain ability to discern. Father and mother must patiently tell him what can be thrown and what can’t be thrown.
(3) If the child throws something that affects other people’s rest, work, etc., make a positive criticism of the child and let him point out his mistakes.
⑷If the child throws things because he is angry and vented, then the parents should first communicate with the child to understand the reason for being angry with the child.
If the reason is right, add sympathy to the baby and give him comfort; if it is because the unreasonable requirements have not been met, you can take the approach of transferring the target.
⑸Sometimes the baby throws things just to attract the attention of adults, such as parents, so as long as you pay more attention to the baby and let the baby feel that the parents are paying attention to him, you can avoid the bad habit of throwing things by the child.
Tell your child to pick up what he or she throws out, which can effectively reduce the problem of children throwing things around.
3. Destructive behavior The child’s improvement in ability to overcome will increasingly show some destructive behavior.
It is generally divided into two cases. One case is that when the baby is almost 2 years old, curiosity starts to gradually increase, which is meaningful to all items. I like to touch the east and look at the west.
However, due to their poor hands and hand and eye coordination, they are not very familiar with the performance of various items, so it will inevitably destroy some things (sometimes even the things that parents like very much). This should get parentsUnderstanding.
Another situation is: When the child’s work far exceeds his actual ability, the frustration after many failed attempts will often irritate young children. In order to vent their own sense of distortion, the child will cause some destructivethe behavior of.
If this is the case, the parents must not reprimand the child, because this will make the child feel very aggrieved and misunderstood, and feel isolated, which will lead to angry feelings and even intentional destructive actions to show his indignation,Or continue to destroy to tease the parents and see how angry the parents are, and get a sense of satisfaction from repeated failures.
Correction method: For the child’s destructive behavior, the parents should pay attention to the following strategies to help him correct: ⑴ For the things he destroyed, the parents can ask the child to restore and repair them together.
Tell the child no matter what it is, destroying things is a bad behavior and should be avoided and corrected as much as possible.
(3) Find out the cause of the child’s destruction, do not overly criticize, and take measures to appease his abnormal emotions.
He played games with the baby, improved his hands-on skills, helped him achieve small success, and cultivated his sense of success.
For children’s various emotions, adults should pay more attention to participating in the experience and express it for the child in a timely manner.
When the child understands that the parents understand him, his anger will be greatly reduced, and he will give up the radical and destructive behavior.
At the same time, this is also great for parent-child relationships.
In daily life, parents should first calm themselves, deal with various problems calmly, and give the children a good example.
⑺Encourage your child’s curiosity and provide them with toys that can satisfy their curiosity, such as split toys.
Adults should carefully observe whether there are other people maliciously or unintentionally instigating corrections, condone the child’s destructive behavior, and if so, must take immediate action to stop them.
4. Willfulness and temper tantrums accompany the growth of children’s self-consciousness. Most children will show some willful behavior, especially in 2?
4 years old is most common.
Some moms and dads are too addicted and spoiled to their children, and everything follows their wishes.
Once something can’t be done according to the child’s thinking, the child will cry arbitrarily and make a noise.
If the father and mother weigh and give up when they are distressed, this will allow the child to correct his practice. It will be very effective. In the future, he will continue to use this method to achieve his purpose, thereby nourishing the child’s willful mischief.
In addition, because of their limited ability, the child still fails after trying many times and trying to do something. This frustration can also make the child lose his temper.
Correction methods For these situations, parents can refer to the following methods: 不要 Do not be too accustomed to the child on weekdays, and give the child the correct guidance to let him know that parents are not omnipotent, and not every requirement can be realized.
Young children are more emotionally changeable, so parents should think first when dealing with things, and consider actions that may occur and how to deal with them before they can not cope with the wayward coquettishness of their children.
(3) Treat the child’s willfulness and temper tantrums, although they are anxious, but do not show too much. You can take a dismissive approach and dilute the method. The child will stop after he is uninterested.
犯罪 Use the child’s attention crime to divert the child’s attention, so that he will become a new thing in obesity expenditure.
Children are forgetful and naturally ignore what just happened.
⑸ Try not to let your child lose his temper the first time, the sense of victory will encourage him to use this method every time.
Praise the other obedient child in front of the child, let him accept positive hints, admit that the wayward child does not like their parents.
In order to win praise from his parents, he will also learn very well.
⑺Don’t show yourself in front of your child, and don’t say words such as “I won’t listen to you anymore”.
Don’t make promises to children, especially things that can’t be done, but promises must be done, so that every word you say, children can trust and understand its weight.
Appropriate punishment, telling the child to miss his long-awaited activity because he lost his temper, which led him to think carefully before the next temper.
⑽ The attitude of the family must be the same, not one-on-one, and let the tantrum children get out of the way.
Let the child make his own decisions among various choices. Because it is his own choice, he is not embarrassed to lose his temper.
坚定 Be firm, don’t change your mind just because your child is crying.
5, children caused by aggressive behavior will go through the stages of biting and beating, this is a normal growth stage.
Generally speaking, the method of diluting will soon transition.
However, there are some babies who have robes that develop aggressive behaviors that require adult reorganization.
There are many reasons for aggressive behavior.
Beating people may be a way to protect themselves; it may be a way for him to vent his displeasure; or it may be to imitate the behavior of other children, parents or television.
Biting a person may be the exploratory behavior of a 1-and-a-half-year-old baby in the lip period; it may be imitating the action of a small animal; or it may be the performance of a kiss, but it is just an inaccurate grasp.
The correction method is aimed at these aggressive behaviors. Parents should pay attention to: ⑴ Parents should lead by example, and do not have aggressive behaviors such as hitting children on weekdays.
Don’t let children watch violent television.
(3) Usually educate the baby about civilization, and be friendly when the child is playing with other children, don’t beat people and swear, if you bully other children, apologize.
To develop children’s various skills, especially social and language skills.
Teach your children to express their angry feelings, and parents must be properly groomed.
⑹If their own child is beaten, parents must have the courage to criticize others’ children.
Otherwise, our babies will lose their sense of security and feel that only by hitting others can they protect themselves.
You ca n’t double standards. Your children are endlessly noisy when they are attacked. It ‘s okay if your children are attacked by others, and they are even smug. This can only have very bad effects on children.
Beyond the above-mentioned common bad habits of some babies, I hope to remind all moms and dads that your correct guidance will affect children’s behavior standards.